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NOVEMBER 8-12, 2023 Tulum, Mexico

About the Agape Intensive




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Join Maria Avgitidis, CEO of Agape Match, for a 4 day Bootcamp at Tulum's latest all inclusive

Adults Only experience; Secrets Tulum Resort.  


The Agape Intensive in Real Life (IRL) is ideal for those who want to learn how to reconfigure their mindset to decrease dating fatigue and attract happy and fun dating experiences. Maria will give you the tools you need to understand your own chemistry and compatibility and give you the tools to reverse engineer your search for your person.


The Agape Intensive in Real Life (IRL) includes personality typing and communicating your temperament to attract the person right for you, understanding the pillars of compatibility, and a crash course in Attachment Theory and how our past dictates our patterns in dating. It concludes with a session in marketing yourself online and offline to increase your social networks and opportunities to help you meet the right person. 


Join Maria Avgitidis and your new friends at the Secrets Tulum Resort. You'll participate in the Agape Intensive and have time for relaxation and fun. Spaces are limited. Register today. 



-HELEN, 46

It was so encouraging just being around professionals who KNOW it can and will happen when you're willing to change your patterns and put in some work. Maria and Chrisoula have seen it happen thousands of times and I feel like I can borrow the courage of their convictions as I walk into this next phase of my journey.

So worth it.

I recommend this experience to anyone who feels like they're losing hope. There are so many reasons to be hopeful about love. Agape will help you find them and act on them.

-ERIN, 37

I left the intensive with some amazing new friends that I feel like will be in my life for a long time.

It was such a supportive, validating, safe and uplifting environment to be in. I left the retreat really hopeful that not only will I find love, but the right kind of love that will build into a lasting, fulfilling, beautiful partnership or marriage. I highly recommend the Agape Dating Intensive and if you are someone who likes to travel, then definitely do an intensive in real liife. I feel like it was a life changing trip and can't wait to get out there and start dating with purpose and intention.

-BECKY, 34

I have been reading about dating, listening to dating podcasts and reading relationship psychology books for years. But there is something so special about doing a retreat in person.

I feel like all the information I've been hearing for years has finally landed and I understand it on a deeper level. The vulnerability that is involved with an in person retreat really makes you reflect honestly on your past and what you want for your future.

The Venue


Secrets Tulum is an Adults Only All Inclusive 5 star hotel in Tulum. 


We chose this destination to host the Agape Intensive In Real Life as it is the ideal destination for recovering the wellness of body and mind.


Secrets Tulum is the perfect mix of jungle haven and beach escape and the idyllic place for you to reconnect.


Our Agape Intensive program was designed to provide clarity in dating and a roadmap to happy and fun relationships. We hope you'll join us! 



Book Your Room

King Junior Suite Swim Out

One king size bed with majestic views of the surrounding jungle. Each guest suite is designed to open into a cenote-style courtyard, with an intimate pool surrounded by endemic vegetation. 

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Double Junior Suite Swim Out

Two double beds with majestic views of the surrounding jungle. Each guest suite is designed to open into a cenote-style courtyard, with an intimate pool surrounded by endemic vegetation. 

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About the Host

Maria Avgitidis Pyrgiotakis, a 4th generation matchmaker, is the CEO of Agape Match, an award winning matchmaking service based out of NYC, and the host of the dating and relationship podcast, Ask a Matchmaker. She is also the co-founder of the Matchmakers Alliance, which serves as a trade association to over 300 matchmakers collaborating to better serve their clients.  A trail blazer in the dating industry, Maria provides an intuitive perspective to help guide singles out of dating fatigue and into fun, happy, and healthy relationships. Maria’s dating advice has been featured on The NY Times, The Washington Post, Good Morning America, The Today Show, Esquire, and Elle. She's also been featured on the Girls Gotta Eat, Chatty Broads, and U Up Podcasts. 

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